Scene Craft for Great Kink Play - LIVE Online Class - November 20, 2025

This class is presented LIVE on Thursday, November 20, 2025 @ 7 PM to 9 PM

Creating a great scene in BDSM is both an art and a science. When I’m in the zone, I think of myself as the conductor of a symphony, bringing all sorts of different elements together to create harmony and a beautiful piece of music. At the same time, I’m also a surgeon, making decisions in the moment of what to keep and what to cut away, following the science of kink to get the optimal outcome—whatever that looks like to both my partner and myself. 

Become empowered to be your own conductor/surgeon—or whatever role you see yourself in! Use all the tools at your disposal to create amazing, incredible scenes that will leave you and your partner both satisfied and wanting more. 

We will cover the basics: consent, how and what to negotiate, how to surprise your partner consensually, and how to debrief. Communication is key to good BDSM, so you need to become comfortable talking about it before, during, and after your scenes. Learn effective communication skills and how to take constructive criticisms on board without damaging your confidence or your sense of Toppiness/Dominance. 

Dissect the anatomy of a scene, from the warm-up to the main play elements to the ending, and get a few different ideas on how to end your scenes in an impactful way. Whether you want to transition into intimacy, are playing non-sexually, or want something in between (or totally different), find interesting methods to move from one element to the next. 

Discover how to structure different elements and how many types of play into a cohesive scene (science) while also invoking the emotions and atmosphere that turn you on (art). Put your own spin on your scenes to make them truly your own. Keep your partners coming back, begging for more!